Hello my lovelies!
Oh, it’s been a long time since I wrote to you all. I’ve missed you, but life has had some curves lately and writing has had to take a backseat for quite some time.
I guess the best way to say it is to just say it: I’m getting divorced.
Yup, the big D, and not the fun one.
It’s been a long time coming, and while it sucks, some days more than others, I know it’s what’s best for me, my kids, and my soon-to-be-ex-husband.
I don’t want to go into details because it’s not just my story and I don’t really feel like it’s my place to tell it, but it’s a big change for me and my family.
I don’t hate my husband-to-be-ex (there’s no good term for this in-between stuff), and you won’t find me bad mouthing him anywhere online, or in person. I have a few trusted friends I can vent to, but he’s a good person and a great dad and I sincerely wish him all the happiness in the world. We just weren’t meant to be spouses.
The kids are doing well. They don’t quite “get it” but they’re adapting.
It’s hard, but life is never stagnant and this is simply the way that our path has turned through the woods.
So, all that being said, the blog might start to look a little different, because my life is starting to look a little different; but I’m excited to start sharing it with you all again.